When in a Storm, Don't Forget to Get Wet

A storm originates when a low pressure system is surrounded by a high pressure system. Small areas of low pressure can form from hot air rising off hot ground. Hot air will rise, and when the hot air collides with cold air, the hot air is forced up over the colder, drier air.

Now - when the warmer air is displaced upwards, it causes surface air pressure to drop, which creates a vacuum effect where the two air masses meet. Cold air then rushes in to fill the area of lower air pressure, and this in turn forces more warm air upwards. This starts a cycle of cold air rushing in, pushing the warm air upwards. It is this very turbulence that causes the storm. (Source: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_causes_storms#ixzz1vRB6hgCW)

IMPORTANT

Please take the following as an observation not a judgment. This is not personal or targeted to anyone in particular! What I describe below has caused me to write my blog after being radio silent for over three months. Mainly, my motive is to avoid the assumption that Christians or "people of faith" are always in a storm, and it is so NOT true.

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I listen to Christian radio and am on Facebook quite a bit, and hear and see a number of people asking for prayer because they are “in a storm” – medical, financial, emotional, spiritual, marital / relationship, job-related and others.

However, the sheer number people who say they are in a storm on the radio or post it on Facebook - sometimes over and over again – has caused me to wonder if they’ve allowed themselves to get wet during the storm - meaning did they learn from the storm what God intended them to get out of the storm?

To be completely honest and transparent, I sometimes wonder if the posts and requests for prayer are for the right motive(s) –do they really want prayer and fellowship or are they looking for attention, sympathy or something other than what God intended. God knows our intentions, and it’s not my place to judge whether they are right or not, but I often find it hard to believe that there are some who are always in a storm. At some point, the sun DOES come out. Yes?!? And if the sun does come out, why isn't the sun shared as quickly as the storm…if at all.

Let me be clear…

Is it my intention to put a cease fire on these requests or posts? Absolutely not! We were not put on this Earth to live or survive alone. We need each other…to pray, to fellowship, and to care about and for. I commit, and hope you do too, to pray about my motive for the request and the words to post prior to ever hitting the keyboard.

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Now, back to our regularly scheduled blog!

Are you in a storm? If you are, then what?

When I feel the tendency to identify something in my life as a storm, I ask myself the following questions:

1)  Am I really in a storm? There are varying types of weather conditions, and not all constitute a storm.  I ask myself, is this really a storm or is this just a storm watch or passing shower? What’s the difference? If I can prevent a full blown storm from happening, it’s a storm watch. I have realized that by treating a warning as a storm, it has actually caused a true storm.

Hmm? What warnings have you mistaken for a storm? What happened when you reacted to the warning as a storm?

2)  Why am I in this storm? Storms happen for a reason. Referring back to the cause of a natural storm above, there are parallels between our personal storms.

·    Consequences of our sinful nature. When there is a difference in pressure between the choices I make and the choice God wants me to make, a vacuum is created. When a vacuum is created, our tendency is to fill it. What we decide to fill that vacuum with will often cause our storm, e.g. drugs, alcohol, fear, doubt, pride, sex, unhealthy relationships, anger, seeking approval or attention, <fill-in-your-blank>, etc.  

Hmm? What do you use to fill the vacuum? Why?

·    God wants to do work in my life that He cannot do in any other way. Prior to a storm, there are warnings that a storm is brewing…clouds roll in, sky gets gray, winds pick up. Until the evidence of a storm appears, I often continue as if there is no impending storm. But when the first drops of rain start falling, I take cover. God gives us plenty of warning that a storm is coming through various nudges. Many times, we ignore these nudges. When God needs your/my attention because you/I have failed to heed the warnings, he creates the storm that will allow us to accomplish what He needs to accomplish through us.  Sometimes it’s just He is using our circumstance as a stepping-stone for a greater plan.

Romans 8:28, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose" (NIV).

3)  What do I need to do in the storm? Worst thing you can do is nothing.

·    Know God is present in the storm. During storms, it’s easy to feel God is not there. Know that He is present in every storm. “During a test, a teacher is always silent.”

·    Turn to God and seek His will. Eliminate the vacuum by surrendering your way to God’s way through prayer, reading His word and reflection. Often if there is no difference in pressure, there’s no storm.

·    Praise Him through the storm. Why? God is changing me through this experience to complete His purpose for my life. The change is always for the better, if I choose to see the good in it.

James 1:2-4, “Count it all joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” (NIV)

4)  When will this storm pass? Storms do end. Really, they do! But when?

·    It depends on God. He is always in control. I have to choose to accept and trust God’s decision to either supernaturally deliver me from the storm or give me the grace to walk through the storm…one step at a time.

·    And, it depends on me. If God keeps me in the storm, I still have something to learn. Patience and complete dependence on God does not happen overnight. If that is what the storm is supposed to teach, it will take time.

                                                                                                                                                

5)  What do I do after the storm?

·    I don’t focus on the storm. If I focus on the storm, I miss the joy that often comes from it.

·    I praise and thank God for bringing me through the storm first, and then teaching me what I needed to get out of it.

·    I spend time reflecting on 1) why I was in the storm, 2) how long I was in the storm...why so long or short, 3) what God revealed to me through the storm, and 4) how I will live differently as a result of the storm.

·    I share my testimony to glorify and magnify GOD, not to increase myself. This is where I really check my motives. Am I sharing my testimony because I want people to acknowledge me or see God’s greatness? If I recognize I am sharing for attention instead praising God…wrong reason.

Remember
Storms are not always bad. After a drought, a storm is very welcomed!

Father, I thank you for all the storms I have had in my life, and all those to come.  Sometimes I am very well aware of the reason, e.g. my action or inaction. And in other cases, I may not know your reason. But I do know that with each storm, you are transforming me. Please don’t stop creating me. I know you will never give me anything more than I can handle. Place the people I need in my life to help weather each storm. Search my heart Lord, and allow my motives to be pure when sharing my storm.  And Lord, after the storm, let me distill the lesson(s) you need me to take from it. Allow my faith in you to increase with the passing of each storm. Ensure that my thoughts, actions, words and heart give YOU the glory, always. Holy Spirit, convict me when they do not.  Thank you for loving me! In Jesus’ precious name, I pray. Amen.

7 Reasons Why Your Prayers Haven't Been Answered...Yet!

I used to share the story below with leaders attending my programs to inspire action. I decided to share this with you because I feel it simply portrays, and in some ways, parallels my prayer life, and perhaps yours as well. 

Hope faced some struggles during the year and desperately needed a financial miracle in her life. She got down on her knees and prayed, "God, I really need a miracle. Please let me win the $216 million dollar Powerball jackpot tonight. If I win, I promise I will do anything you ask of me. Amen." Later that night the Powerball numbers came out, and nothing.

The following week the jackpot crept up to $311 million. Hope got back down on her knees and prayed, "God, maybe you didn't think last week was a good time for a miracle, but I am hoping you can make me a winner this week. Again, if I win I will do anything you ask of me. Amen." You guessed it, the Powerball numbers came out, and not even ONE number. Really?!? Yes, really, not one.

The jackpot continued to rise and was up to $402 million. So for the third week, Hope pleaded, "God, I really need a miracle. Please I beg you! Please, please let me win the Powerball jackpot tonight. I promise I will do anything you...."

Before she could even finish she heard God call her name. 

Shocked, she replied, "Yes Lord?" 

"My child Hope, I heard you the first two times. You need to buy a ticket first!"

Are you laughing (or at least smiling)? I always got a few chuckles from the audience when I said the last line. It's funny at the surface, but when I really analyzed it, it's very telling.    


How many times have you been Hope - someone who desperately needed a miracle? Maybe you need one now. I've been her a couple of times. I intentionally chose Hope as her name because in the story, that was all she had, hope...hope that God would perform a miracle. You need more than hope. How many times have you prayed about something and not received an answer? If you are like me, you can't even remember all of them. Yes? 


Based on the moral of this parable along with my experience, below are reasons why it seems your prayers are not being answered:

1. Oh ye of little faith. God does great things according to the amount of faith you have in Him. If you have little faith, God will do small miracles. As your faith grows, so will His miracles. The measure of your miracle is dependent on the the amount of faith you have in God. How much faith do you have in God in relation to what you are asking of Him? Don't ask for more than you have.
2. Let's make a deal, Lord. "If you do this for me God, I promise I will do that." God is not a conditional God. He does what He does for you out of pure unconditional love. I'm not saying not to make promises (or not to keep them), but doing so is not going to influence God one way or another. When He chooses to answer your prayer, it is because of who He is not because of anything you have done or will do.  Are you waiting for (or challenging) God to give you a miracle before you do something you should already be doing? Do it anyway. It might just be the missing piece. 
3. But I want it now. God's timing is not my (or your) timing. You may need a miracle now, but God may not feel now is the time. Sometimes He gives us time to makes sure what we are asking Him for is indeed what we want or what He wants for us. See God has the big picture. He sees all things and how they interconnect. In this day and age of microwave mentality, we want things NOW. Why wait? God doesn't operate like that. He's working things out for you - things you don't even know about. Those things take time. He hasn't forgotten about you. When everything has been worked out - then God's timing is revealed. Is there something you've prayed for that you think God has forgotten to answer? He hasn't.
4. I'll do it myself. Be patient. Why is God taking so long? Sometimes I get restless and impatient. So I take things into my own hands instead of accepting God's timing and letting Him work things out. That causes even more of a delay. It's like being stuck in traffic and deciding to take a detour to get to your destination quicker, but it sets you even more behind schedule. Be patient and who knows, the traffic might just lighten up over the hill if you stay on course. Are you tempted to do it yourself and speed things along because you can't wait anymore? Don't do it. Wait for God's answer.
5. All on you God. Do your best and God does the rest. You have got to DO (or stop doing) something first. Just praying about it isn't enough. God doesn't just make things happen without asking you to take some action or the first step. Would God have allowed Hope to win Powerball if she bought a ticket? Maybe or maybe not. However, she needed to buy the ticket FIRST to find out. What are you praying for that requires you to take action? Take it.
6. I can't ask God to do that.  Ask boldly and be specific. The only limits God has are the ones WE place on Him because He is limitless. Are you asking God to just get you through a specific situation or are you boldly asking Him to breakthrough your current situation? Are you asking Him to meet a specific need for yourself or are you boldly asking Him to meet your needs so you have more than enough to meet the needs of others? What limits are you placing on God? Go and release those limits. 
7. I'll ask, but doubt he'll answer.  Expect your prayers to be answered. If you pray with hope, faith, and patience without expectation, it's like baiting a hook, throwing a line and waiting for a bite in a pond with no fish. It's all for nothing. Expect that God will always answer your prayer, because He will. It may not be the answer you want, but an answer nonetheless. I can think of many men that I wanted to date and prayed for God to draw them near me. I think there is a country song called, "Thank you for unanswered prayers." Enough said! When you pray are you expecting an answer - even if it's not the answer you are looking for? Always expect an answer - whether you agree with it or not because you will get one.

"Lord, I come before you, united with each person who prays this prayer with me, and boldly ask for your favor and hand in my life and theirs. You said, ask and you shall receive; seek and you shall find. Lord, I ask you to place the words in my mouth to ask for all you want me to receive and the desire in my heart to seek all you want me to find. Light my path Lord so I can clearly see the steps I need to take to draw closer to you. Reveal the obstacles I need to remove so you can finish the good work you've started in me and on my behalf. Bless and prosper me so I can be a blessing to others. Use me Lord for the glory of your name and kingdom. In Your precious and Holy name I boldly pray! Amen."

Be a fountain, not a drain.

Source: www.andrewcomiskey.com

Last spring, I drove by a church sign that read, "Be a fountain, not a drain." Besides thinking it was a cool quote, and sharing it with my friends, the Fountain family (for obvious reasons), I didn't give it much thought.

However, lately it keeps randomly popping into my mind - so much so that I can't ignore it anymore and it has moved me to thinking about what it means to me and more importantly discover why it's relevant.

Psst? Is there something that keeps popping in your mind... song, a phrase, a picture, whatever? When things keep "randomly" popping into my mind (or yours), there is nothing random about it. It's God trying to tell me (you, us) something. If I (we) don't get it the first, second, tenth time...he keeps nudging. 

View from my window at my new home.

When I think about His nudge this time, I literally have to laugh out loud - I see a fountain everyday...several times in fact! The place that we moved into from RI overlooks the pool. The pool has a fountain. Do you know how many times I look out my window a day? And get this, not only do I see it, I hear it too. Now tell me God is not trying to get my attention.


Sometimes I (we) can be blind or deaf to the message God is trying to send us. 

OK, now He has my attention. Here's where it gets interesting...

So, I start with the definition and select key words.

• Fountain - source, natural, reservoir, stream, origin
• Drain - loss, depletion, to fatigue, become empty

It was clear that all of the words associated with "fountain" are positive, while those associated with "drain" are not - NO big revelation there for me. The revelation didn't come in the two words I focused on, but in the one word I didn't "BE".

Last year was full of transitions for my family and me - some great ones and some not-so-great. There was so much spiraling around me that I started to spiral down right along with it. It was draining on me (physically, emotionally and spiritually) and consequently draining on those around me. I chose, consciously or not, to be a drain.

It's wild to think God took me from there and plopped right smack in a place overlooking a fountain. AWESOME reminder!

BE a fountain, not a drain. 
It's a choice!

A choice to:

• BE positive not negative
• BE a giver not a taker
• BE a creator not a destroyer
• BE hopeful not hopeless
• BE love not hate
• BE grateful not thankless
• BE selfless not selfish
• BE a light not a shadow
• BE a beginning not an ending

Fountain. Drain. Which one will you choose to be? 

"Lord, today I thank you for being the ultimate fountain. Help me to recognize when I am being a drain to myself and those around me. Unclog all the physical, emotional and spiritual drains in my life to flow like fountains. Help me to be an extension of your constant, loving stream. Today Lord, let me be a fountain, not a drain. In your precious name I pray. Amen!"